Pre-Divorce
Decisions
I am still unsure if divorce is the right answer
Have you had any of the following thoughts or questions?
- “Can my marriage be saved?”
- “Should I keep trying?”
- “Why didn’t marriage counseling work?”
- “Am I going to regret my decision either way?”
- “Should I just stay in the marriage because of the children?”
If both of you are asking these questions and your decision to divorce is not final we can help you with that decision. If divorce is not the right answer we can help you with your reconciliation efforts with the help of a marriage communication coach. Communication Coaching is very different than marriage counseling and statistically more successful and helping couples to reconcile.
I am ready to start the divorce process
- How long will my divorce take?
- How much will it cost?
- What are my legal rights in a divorce?
- How hard is my divorce going to be?
If you are asking these questions and you are ready to start the divorce process then we can help.
With over 25 years of divorce mediation experience we have developed a process to get you through the divorce process quickly, fairly, and inexpensively. Our process enables us to complete most divorces in less than a month and you will never have to set foot in a courtroom or talk to a judge or deal with adversarial attorneys. By following our step by step process you may be able to waive the mandatory “90 day waiting period” as well.
WE ARE THE ONLY MEDIATION FIRM THAT GUARANTEES OUR SERVICES.
Take our Divorce Conflict Assessment to gain clarity on how hard your divorce may be, how long it will take, and how much it could cost.
Educate yourself and start running the numbers of how much child support or alimony might be using our online calculators.
One of us wants the divorce and the other does not
- My spouse is freaking out and going crazy because they dont want the divorce. What do I do?
- I don’t want this divorce and I feel my spouse is trying to cram this divorce down my throat! I need time to process this. What do I do?
If either of these situations are familiar to you then we can help.
In many divorces one spouse wants the divorce and the other does not. This creates a very special set of problems that can make the divorce process unnecessarily more difficult than it needs to be.
We specialize in these types of divorce situations. We coach the wanting spouse on what to say and when to say it. We work with the un-wanting spouse on how to handle their emotions and deal with the divorce.
We identify potential hazards for the divorcing couple to be aware of and guide them away from these hazards.