Why Common Ground mediation is now divorceright.com

In A Current Divorce

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“Why did I think I could do a divorce myself using the Online Court Assistance Program (OCAP)? The clerks are rude and won’t help me. It is confusing and creating conflict with my spouse that I am trying to avoid! “

I have started my divorce on my own and am frustrated and confused.

Are you struggling to figure out how to put your divorce paperwork together online? Are you confused about all the legal mumbo-jumbo and you just need some straightforward answers to help you put your divorce agreement together?

Did you know it’s estimated that over 75% of all the do it yourself online divorces end up having significant problems even after one year and many of those end up having to go back to court to be fixed?

  • Addressing new significant others and the children
  • How to resolve disputes over visitation, holidays, and vacations
  • How to resolve disputes if somebody chooses to move
  • Customized language allowing the couples to “experiment” with different parenting time schedules
  • Addressing if a parent is not taking the children when they say they will
  • How to address how to handle a child that does not want to see the other parent
  • How to deal with differences on parenting styles and/or religious issues
  • What if somebody wants the children to participate in an activity or sport and the other does not?
  • How will extras like cell phones, car insurance, dance competitions etc be paid for?
  • What if somebody gets a significantly greater tax benefit from taking the deductions
  • Life insurance provision in case of death to cover child support
  • After 18 expenses like missions, weddings, college etc. \
  • How to manage Health Savings Accounts
  • Disputes over who will provide day care
  • Disputes about elective medical procedures
  • How to calculate child support if incomes fluctuate from year to year
  • Customizing an agreement on the home.
  • How to allow one party to keep the home and the other party still be able to buy a home
  • How to determine the equity?
  • Terms and Boundaries for selling the home]
  • How to avoid negative consequences in selling a home
  • How to avoid negative consequences in dividing retirements
  • How to stay on loans together after the divorce safely
  • How to calculate alimony when there are incomes that fluctuate
  • How to write language about an alimony buyout
  • How to include property settlements into alimony agreements
  • How to make adjustments to alimony when there is a company involved
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“Making the decision to get married wasn’t that difficult… Why does it have to be so difficult to get a divorce when both parties agree on everything?”

It doesn’t have to be.

Many people going through a divorce seek options that will save time and money, which is understandable given that divorce can cost tens of thousands of dollars and take months if attorneys and judges are involved.

While it is now possible to complete all your divorce paperwork using Internet websites, which often advertise as free and easy, there are two major risks to consider:

  • Cannot Customize Agreement: Internet divorce services typically do not provide a complete checklist of all the issues that need to be addressed for a comprehensive divorce agreement. These sites usually offer only the minimum required language and documents for a judge to sign the decree, leading to incomplete agreements. This often results in needing to return to court later to fix issues. A good divorce agreement should be customized to fit your unique situation.
  • Dealing With Grumpy Clerks: Court clerks cannot assist you beyond providing general information, as giving specific legal advice is against the law. They deal with numerous people asking for help, which can sometimes make them less patient. This can make it difficult to understand what to file, how, and when.

Considering these risks, it's important to weigh the benefits of professional mediation services, which can offer tailored solutions and support throughout the process.

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Why did I think I could do a divorce myself using the Online Court Assistance Program (OCAP)? The clerks are rude and won’t help me. It is confusing and creating conflict with my spouse that I am trying to avoid!

Here are just a few of the common issues that are not addressed in online do it yourself divorce agreements:

Common Issues Not Available With Online Divorce Programs

  • Addressing new significant others and the children
  • How to resolve disputes over visitation, holidays, and vacations
  • How to resolve disputes if somebody chooses to move
  • Customized language allowing the couples to “experiment” with different parenting time schedules
  • Addressing if a parent is not taking the children when they say they will
  • How to address how to handle a child that does not want to see the other parent
  • How to deal with differences on parenting styles and/or religious issues
  • What if somebody wants the children to participate in an activity or sport and the other does not?
  • How will extras like cell phones, car insurance, dance competitions etc be paid for?
  • What if somebody gets a significantly greater tax benefit from taking the deductions
  • Life insurance provision in case of death to cover child support
  • After 18 expenses like missions, weddings, college etc. \
  • How to manage Health Savings Accounts
  • Disputes over who will provide day care
  • Disputes about elective medical procedures
  • How to calculate child support if incomes fluctuate from year to year
  • Customizing an agreement on the home.
  • How to allow one party to keep the home and the other party still be able to buy a home
  • How to determine the equity?
  • Terms and Boundaries for selling the home]
  • How to avoid negative consequences in selling a home
  • How to avoid negative consequences in dividing retirements
  • How to stay on loans together after the divorce safely
  • How to calculate alimony when there are incomes that fluctuate
  • How to write language about an alimony buyout
  • How to include property settlements into alimony agreements
  • How to make adjustments to alimony when there is a company involved

Common Ground Divorce Mediation offers an online divorce coaching service that provides one-on-one coaching and assistance, using your existing online divorce document program to help you customize your divorce. With our support, most divorces are completed within one week.

For a very affordable price, which varies depending on whether you have children, you will receive professional help from an unbiased, experienced mediator. This ensures that your agreement will be thorough and complete, with a less than 5% chance of needing to return to court to fix anything.

If you’d like to discuss how we can help you complete your divorce in the next few weeks and end the frustration of using online court programs, please complete the Online Divorce Assessment below. A mediator will contact you to discuss the next steps.

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